

Philippe
Love Underground
Jocelyn
Liquid Love Drops
presents
GrINd WiTh Me
At A BeaUTiFuL MANsiON iN sAn RaFAEl, CalIFOrnIA
Second Base is:
Above The Waist! Sexy Attire Only!
Topless-ness And Booty Shorts Encouraged!
(more details here)
With:
BeAt KItTy
SoundCloud ~ Spotify ~ Facebook ~ IG @beatkittymusic
Hailing from the vibrant intersection of creativity and dancefloor-shaking rhythms, Beat Kitty emerges as a trailblazing force in the realm of electronic music. As both a visionary producer and a dynamic DJ, she defies the confines of bass, sculpting sonic landscapes that propel listeners into auditory bliss.
Born and bred amidst the pulsating heartbeat of urban culture, Beat Kitty's musical journey began at at young age. Her classical training expanding when she fell in love with hip hop and metal.
With each beat, she blends bass, halftime, dnb, house, trap, hip hop and global rhythms seamlessly. At the core of Beat Kitty's sonic palette lies an infectious sense of playfulness and a love of dynamics. Her compositions are imbued with energy that ignites dance-floors and her live sets are a masterclass in sonic alchemy.
In a world where conformity reigns supreme, she stands as a beacon of freedom and expression as an artist, musician, and event producer focused on consent, interactivity, and safe spaces. As she continues to push the boundaries of electronic music, Beat Kitty invites us all to join her in auditory exploration, where the dance-floor is our playground and the music is our guide.NAuGHtY prINcEsS
IG @naughtyprincess ~ Facebook ~ Website ~ SoundCloud
Naughty Princess is an internationally recognized electronic music artist known for her ability to bring the heat to the dance floor with her unique blend of Eastern melodies, cinematic and orchestral sounds, and the latest beats. Her music is diverse yet distinctive, with soaring female vocals, rumbling 808s, and searing electronic riffs that get the dance floor heaving. She has become notorious for her energetic performances that inspire people to let loose, express themselves, and dance their hearts out.
Naughty Princess has played at some of the top events in the electronic music industry, including Envision, Oregon Eclipse, Lightning in a Bottle, Northern Nights, Gem and Jam, Santa Cruz Music Festival, Enchanted Forest, Raindance, Priceless, The Fillmore Denver, CoSM, Burning Man, and more. Her goal is to create a magical dance floor experience that connects people with their inner spark, body, movement, and community. This experience brings her the biggest joy, and she believes it can be deeply transformative for people.
Based in Los Angeles, Naughty Princess is a sought-after talent in the electronic music industry. With her unique style and energetic performances, Naughty Princess creates unforgettable experiences on the dance floor!LiQUiD LOvE drOPs
Liquid Love Drops is an exploration in weaving hypnotic and enchanting sounds and entrancing patterns. As a performer, she's has been shakin' booties across the bay and beyond, with her vibrant personality, skills as a soundtrack selectress combined with her own ear worm bass heavy mixes. Her high energy show captures your attention and traps you on the dance floor.
rAtCHaElBEaTs
Originally from Santa Cruz and based in the Bay Area, the hip-hop & bass music trap queen known as RatchaelBeats has quickly become a fixture in San Francisco’s nightlife. She’s known for making booties shake at venues across the Bay, like F8, DNA Lounge, Public Works, Crybaby, 1015, The Midway and more. With her unique blends of hip hop, rap, trap and West Coast bass, RatchaelBeats definitely brings flavor to the decks. You’ve seen her at Burning Man at Camp Questionmark, Wormhole events, Lightning In A Bottle and Northern Nights.
Realizing the opportunity for the playful synergy that can exist between hip-hop and bass music, Rachael set out in the chaos of the pandemic to create a musical experience for others that is as silly, light-hearted and booty-shaking, as it is deep, sexy, and therapeutic - just like Rachael herself. She’s shared lineups with heavy hitters like UZ, Minnesota, Buku, G-Rex, Koan Sound, The Librarian, Jon Casey, Alleycvt, Tape B, What So Not and Troyboi. You can count on RatchaelBeats to bring you bumping beats, and catch her twerking and bringing joy across dancefloors.SoUL sEEd
Soul Seed's musical journey is a testament to the profound impact that music has had in her life and how it can transform the human experience. through her music speaks to her deep understanding of the soul-stirring potential of sound. Every beat, melody, and rhythm she selects is carefully chosen to evoke emotion, inspire movement, and ignite the spirit. In this shared space, barriers dissolve, and souls connect, creating a profound sense of belonging, she elevates the collective reminding us of the beauty, power, and healing potential of music that touches the soul. music is medicine. With a background in dance, and a lifetime of music festivals, she discovered her passion for Producing and Djing. Her ability to curate the perfect vibe on the dance floor is her ultimate offering, creating a space where people can connect, celebrate and flow. Soul Seed based out of Grass Valley has been influenced by a wide variety of genres and you can hear it in the sounds she plays, including drippy sexy bass, Downtempo, RnB, conscious hip hop, electronic, world fusion, house, afro beats, jungle, breaks. Her music is infused with diverse juicy bass lines, sexy goddess whomps, and the rhythms of the world. Above all, Soul Seed is committed to sharing her musical journey with others, helping them connect with their purpose and find joy on the dance floor.
wATsOnIX
A lover of dance and a dancer of love, Watson is an embodied facilitator whose tool is sound waves that move beings. Drawing from over two and a half decades of sonic expression, Watsonix is a project which weaves an intricate web of rhythm, melody, voice, silence and especially bass frequencies that dance the body, drawing from cultures as disparate as the Middle East, India, Africa and Latin America, as contextualized and blended by some of the worlds most innovative sonic artists. Favorite among all spaces to DJ in are play spaces, where all forms of movement and inter movement are welcome to be explored. We look forward to helping give your body expression.
Melter
Steven Melter is a bass forward explorer of the sonic realms here to guide you on a journey through the dance dimensions. Playing frequent ecstatic dances around the bay, he has also been seen playing internationally, bringing the west coast ecstatic vibes around the world. Through a conversation with the dancefloor, he can be heard playing funk, soul, trap, hip hop, house, deep house, all wrapped up with a layer of medicine music. He is not here to play music- he is here to help you play WITH the music. See you out on the dance floor.
Kali🌟Star
Details to Grind With Me!
What is a Second Base Party?
A Second Base event is a fun dance event where light sensual sexy play is welcome. Loosely taken from the "bases" learned in high school (at least in the US), second base is any fun playful interactions with other (flirty, seductive, hot, exhibitionistic). Of course, you and your friends don't have to do anything special (other than follow our agreements). Our events are much like a buffet where you can choose from a myriad of possibilities.
A Second Base party is also a place to contribute your gifts and learn to connect with those you are attracted to (and politely to the ones you are not), push your edges and boundaries, and a place to practice saying "no, but..." or "yes, and..." as you interact with others creatively!
If you find yourself wanting to "get" something from the party—rather than contributing and receiving in response to that contribution, along playing with boundaries (stretching them, respecting them, holding them, and sharing them)—then this party is likely not for you. Also, even though the lineup for a specific party might be totally awesome and you may just want to dance, you have to expect that this is the sort of event where you will be approached by people wanting to connect and play (which might look like getting flirted with, appreciated, complimented, etc).
All in all, while Second Base parties are light and playful and easy to dive into, they are definitely not for everyone. If you're not absolutely sure, please reach our to Philippe (WhatsApp preferred +14155050786) or email us clubexotica@gmail.com and we'll be delighted to help you feel into this.
For more details about how we play together as a community at a Second Base Party, see our Agreements page.
WHEN
March 29, 7pm to March 30, 10am
WHERE
A beautiful mansion in San Rafael, CA
WHO
This event will bring people from the conscious play party/temple communities of the Bay Area, including Club Exotica, Love Underground, Erotic Playground, Friends & Lovers, ISTA, Pleasure & Carsten’s Temples, Shanti’s Temples, Sham’s Temples, Starry’s Temples, Enki’s Alchemy Society Temples, The Love Party, Burning Man, Elina’s Co-loving Blue Lotus events, and many more!
TICKETS
Get your tickets HERE (No RSVP'ing this time!)
COST
Tickets are $120-150 each an unforgettable night, 12+ hours of DJ's, performances, late night meal, late morning brunch, drinks, snacks, various activities and of course, a hot crowd filled with surprises.
(Cost too high? Consider that a massage usually costs about the same price. Also you can apply to volunteer, see below. If you can't volunteer, please check-in with us at clubexotica@gmail.com)
VOLUNTEER
For those of you who feel the call of service (or an empty wallet) and to be part of something greater in exchange for a discount on your ticket, we have a many opportunity for you to help. Please add your name to the Volunteer Sign Up Sheet and get on the Volunteer WhatsApp group where additional volunteer options will be posted as they become available. Also consider bringing a special contribution (see next below) as a way to get a discounted or free ticket.
SPECIAL CONTRIBUTIONS
Is there something you would like to contribute that feels perfect for this event? Live music, performance, healing work, a sexy class, or becoming a special feline character? Please email us at clubexotica@gmail.com!
FOOD
warm dinner, snacks, and brunch will be served.
QUESTIONS
Please send any questions to clubexotica@gmail.com
Testimonials!
"Thank you so much for a wonderful party. I have been to play parties before, but this one was hands down the best. What impressed me the most was how open and warm everyone was, friendly and curious, caring and attentive. That’s rare at parties like this, that it actually is genuine. Clearly you are doing something right surrounding yourself with people like this, and must be a reflection of the intentions you hold for the space you create."
"What a spectacular party! I had such a great time. Wonderful, weird, open hearted people, genuinely inspiring music from every dj, and vibes for days. Thanks so much for your vision and work to make it happen. Giant love bomb for us all to carry into this hopeful new year! It’s good to see you doing you so well ❤️"
~ Sefirah
"Wow you guys what an epic evening, I missed those parties and I’m so grateful for you Philippe & Jocelyn that you guys are bringing those back!"
"Such a trip to think those were going strong 10-15 years ago, it is time leave the new dream and thanks for dreaming us all into it"
"What a wonderful event, so many sweet connections and new friends! A HUGE THANK YOU to all of you who made this event so memorable 💕"
"Super great vibe we had, miss you all already!"
"Thank you all for the great party! Really grateful for all the good conversations and positive energy."
"Absolutely epic! 💥 Was great to see everyone new and old friends 😍"
"Thank you Philippe, Jocelyn, Alex and all the volunteers for an incredible evening and all the beautiful connections. Had an amazing time. ♥️"
"Thank you to everyone for such a life changing evening! To all the hosts, organizers, space holders, volunteers, shuttle drivers, performers, workshop hosts, guests, and the amazing community that I got to meet last night, that was my first play party (like that!!!) and I learned so much!"
"I had an INCREDIBLE time. One of the sweetest days of my recent history. I loved being a fairy & being with you sweet soft giving beings."
"Thank you Philippe and Jocelyn! For all the hard work and dedication to create such a beautiful community and an unbelievable reality!!! You guys are amazing and I’m honoured to be a part of this amazing community 🙏❤️"
"Thanks to each and every single person who joined this adventure and helped to make this night unforgettable 🙏❤️🙏❤️"
"Please don’t wake me up! I’m still dreaming 🥰"
"What a phenomenal gathering! So amazing to meet such delightful souls. Literally one of the best events ever and thanks to anyone who made it to my sensual massage class. "
"Oh my goodness; what a wonderful 24 hours💕Thank you, all of you."
"My first play party was Midsummer’s Night Wet Dream in 2010. Nothing has compared until now. Philippe & Jocelyn, you have once again created magic that is so very appreciated."
"What an epic event, all around! Juicy blessings to everyone making it happen and everyone riding the wave ❤️"
"What a sexy magical night 💕"
"Thanks soul much everyone! What a beautiful event! 🤩"
"I had Such an amazing time DJing for y'all at the pool! Those of you that made it down to dance, swim and wiggle, thank you for being there! It was such a treat to play with and for you all! 🤩 🔥 🎶 💦"
"I think I'm still in the DREAM!"
"Major Love to all Philippe, Jocelyn, the staff... and all of you that I interacted with..Everyone was so amazingly SWEET! ❤️🔥"
"Wow! What a lovely group of beautiful and welcoming humans. Thank you so much for embracing my Sunday morning set and going on a listening journey with me. "
"What a magical evening of connection, music, dance, juiciness, whip & buff goodness, dragon magic and more! Thank you all for bringing such joyful eros to life! Gratitude to @Jocelyn and lover @Fuzzy for orchestrating the bliss realms on all levels. Stay in touch 🐲🪷🐦🔥🦄🐉🧚🏻♀️❤️🔥"
"Sooo good. What a day full of special moments and great memories. Thank you Jocelyn, Philippe, and the team!"
"Sending lots of blessings to everyone and hope to see you all again soon! ♥️ "
"So, we don't exactly do a whole lotta play parties. Very picky and finicky on such things. AND we've been to a number of good ones over the past few years. However, [my beloved] and I both say HANDS DOWN(!) that Arabian Nights was the all around best play party either of us have ever been to. The space was incredible. The caliber of people there was so friggin' high. AND I must say, I've never been to a play party that had SO MANY goddamn HOT people there. HOT people with great energy. [my beloved] and I both had a great time playing sensual djinn. The many interactions that I had in that role were really positive. And post-djinn role (well post-scheduled djinn role) personal play time was yum Yum YUM, as well. [my beloved] and i had some pretty big breakthroughs with the event, too. I could go on and on. Just so impressed. I do hope that Club Exotica will be planning something again, soon." ~ Destin Gerek, the Erotic Rockstar (www.EroticRockstar.com)
"Thanks for what truly was an AMAZING party. Hot and sexy for all... Thanks for the rippen party..." ~ S"Thanks for everything I had an amazing time. It truly opened me up and I didn't engage with anyone. Just having an open forum like that for people puts things in a different perspective and allows for other things to happen... I am very grateful for the event..so grateful." ~ M
"In Club Exotica, you are transported into such a luxurious and decadent scene you may almost feel you don't deserve it. So remind yourself that of course you deserve it, because you are fun, sexy, and beautiful!" ~ Raerae
"The venue was beautiful, the food divine, and your ceremonial benediction about Sheherazade was one of the finest introductions I have heard in quite some time." ~ E"Thank you so much for co-creating such a lovely event! I had a fantastic time and look forward to participating in future Club Exotica events! Hugs and gratitude!" ~ C"Hello Exotic ones... Acknowledgment and gratitude to you all for the massive efforts and gorgeous container you provided for a remarkable occasion. I greatly enjoyed being the Hot Tub Djinni rain storm and all, my litter of tub-tins and I were quite happy throughout. Loved the heated hooka chill space!" ~ R
"We had so much fun! The people were so nice and respectful, we can't stop talking and remembering it. We're so grateful to be able to feel free somewhere!" ~ C
"I wanted to thank you one more time for putting together such a beautiful party. I felt so comfortable around everyone and met so many wonderful people... Everything from dancing, to playing, to even cleaning was great." ~ G
"Never seen anything like it! Awesome!!" -- H
"I just wanted to thank you for a really lovely experience on Saturday night. It was a grand feast on many levels and I can only hope you will have more of these celebrations. I wanted to share one of my favorite moments which I hope will always stay etched in my mind. It was the end of the evening and there were some of us relaxing in the living room. I wanted some fresh air so I stood outside and leaned against the sliding glass door and watched the gusts of wind blow the billowing curtains as they framed the palm tree which was illuminated by the soft moonlight. As I listened to the sound of the rain pouring down and the sweet, haunting piano music I felt such gratitude for being a participant in this truly wonderful experience of love. Thank you so much for all of your efforts. I so look forward to the next gathering!" ~ A
"We just wanted to take a moment and tell you "Thank You!" for all of your hard work putting this event together. You did a spectacular job and we had a lovely time!" ~ G & R
"Wonderful, fun, amazing party! Thank you!" ~ S
"You guys just freakin rock! I am so happy to have been a part, in my own small way, of supporting the creation of this magnificent event." ~ P"I had a blast -- you pulled out all the stops." ~ B"Wow. Just wow. Thankyou!" ~ A
"The Arabian Nights party was fabulous. It certainly lived up to its name in every way. [my beloved] & I had a wonderful time. Thank you, thank you, thank you!" ~ S
"Thanks a ton! That was a great event, and I think you made [my beloved's] month. She was so happy she said it felt like she was on another planet!! I was really happy to be there too. Nowhere else I would have rather speant my rainy Saturday night. Much appreciation!" ~ D
"Didn't think I'd stay till the end, but you saw me—giddy and drunk from all the wishes received and granted. when's the next one?" ~ S"That was the most incredible beautiful magical valentine's i've had in my life. Thank you for making everyone's deepest wishes take form and come to sparkling life. You made magic that night!" ~ N
"Wow...just wow! Words cannot adequately describe what awesome fun was had at Arabian Nights. Thank you so much for holding and manifesting such a powerful vision! Everything I love about our underground community with the added sex.ual dimension that I hasd not before experienced. I amazed myself at how comfortable and at home I felt and while I did not myself engage in any carnal pleasures, I was okay with just being present and in so doing made some amourous connections that may very well blossom. A huge thank you to Philippe and his fellow producers." ~ S
"I just wanted to say that I THOROUGHLY enjoyed having the opportunity to work as a greeter, party, and play with you and your charming collection of friends during the Arabian Knights affair. Phenomenal venue, outstanding level of organization and care, inspirational music, quality people, quality ingredients, it was all just top-notch." ~ D
"In a world where people feel like a MySpace friend is a connection, it is wonderful to meet and touch and dance and interact with REAL people. Everyone promises a memorable experience in their party invitation, but this party leaves you feeling different for days afterwards." ~ R
"Arabian Nights was not only a delicious party with hot people, a sexy vibe, and a warm atmosphere, but it was an opportunity for me to stretch my own personal boundaries and grow as a powerful woman in relationship and as an individual. It laid a foundation for clear communication with my (new) partner so that I could take ahold of my experience and make it work as well as it possible could for me. I loved seeing people walk through the door that I knew from other lifetimes, that somehow, we had met in the past under different contexts, only to find our way here at Arabian Nights to really grow more intimate from a fleeting meeting years before...what an unexpected treat that, in hindsight, doesn't surprise me at all." ~ A
"It was incredible, beautiful, inspiring! We had a great time seeing, interacting with/among so many lovely, sexy people. Being in rooms filled with such eroticism, good humor, personality, atmosphere and inhibition was nothing short of a veritable dream come true. We wish that life were like this, and that we could do this more often..." ~ A & S
"Really appreciated all the work that went into making an amazing experience. This was my first play party, and while I was a little nervous, I felt really safe and good in the space you created. Thank you!" ~ T
"I had no idea what to expect (first time) but I enjoyed myself - I felt the crowd was very welcoming and the vibe was very friendly/loving.
Aris Loved the ability to create my own story within the environment of everyone's participation." ~ J
"I've always dreamed of attending a party like Arabian Nights but was beginning to think it was a pie-in-the-sky idea that just wasn't possible. Thank you for renewing my hope in the possibility of a truly exotic, emotionally warm, romantic, juicy, fully-expressed, s.x positive gathering. The mark of truly great event is whether it inspires a desire to give back more next time. As a newbie, I felt overwhelmed with gratitude for the thought and hard work that went into creating this fantasy world. I hope to offer more tangible help in creating the next event." ~ T
"That party was so much fun! All night dancing, gorgeous space, great musicians, fabulous costumes, I loved it!" ~ M
"I think that what you set out to do, you achieved! I had the most amazing, fun, pleasurable time!" ~ S
"This was an epic production on a very wet day! It was an unusual way to spend a valentines day. It was full of beauty and wonder and great food and drink in a fantastic setting. Its too bad the outside could not have been better explored due the the weather. the team that created definately seemed very intent on creating the most lush experience for all the guests to feel mesmerized by" ~ J
"I had an amazing time. Everyone very much stepped up to play big, with in their costumes, their attitude, and loving and respectful actions. And I have no doubt that this is due to the momentum and context you provided for the event. The house is spectacular, warm, a little quirky, and full of little nooks to get dirty in. And I really appreciated the ceremonial ritual, which really helps frame the event. And the musical talent was top notch." ~ M
"It was a magical night. I loved the people, the music, the costumes, the DJ's and of course the magical venue really made it. Your attention to details was superb as host, hostess and crew didn't go unnoticed. I want to be there again and again." ~ L
"I had a wonderful evening and that was one of the best Play Party Experiences I've ever had. i could tell you guys put ALOT of energy into making it the fabulous and safe space that it was. The folks there was amazing, so was the ambience, the music, the ceremony, the energy was so HIGH. You guys rock and I sooooo appreciation that you put so much into making this event a total success. Thank you!! Mad Props!" ~ Tallulah
"This was my first 'play' party and it was a fantastic experience. The environment was really magical. All the love that went into the event was evident everywhere: the decorations, the food (incredible), the music, and the music. Everyone was very friendly, open, and respectful. I felt very comfortable. Thank you to the host and organizers!" ~ M
"Now, my whole life is a little sexier! My relationship to my sex.uality as well as my partners is blossoming and my orgasms are deepening. Love it!" ~ D
"Great intentions, costumes, work efforts, decor, people. I felt comfortable & found most folks very open with a high level of awareness and consciousness. I like that kind of community. Words do little justice to the house as a venue for this party." ~ P"
Arabian Nights was the most authentic themed event I have ever attended. It was very refreshing to see an event managed so well. I was especially pleased that everyone adhered to rules regarding costumes and behavior." ~ J
"top flight in every way! lovely setting, lovely people, great beats, great food and drinks...intimate areas and spaces that made the evening feel intimate and private." ~ S
"It was everything I hoped for, and more. I didn't expect so many distinct spaces. The Djinnis and guests were awesome. Within minutes of entering, I was eating super-rich chocolate off of my date's nipple."
"I was very happy about the costume requirement, and the clear agreements. Knowing that everyone signed those had me feel much better about letting loose. I only saw one couple there that didn't seem to "belong"
and they were tolerably naive." ~ X
"I don't know what it took to organize this, but THANK YOU. It was the best Valentine's Day I can remember." ~ X
"fantastic job! - altho i was locked into one small space for most of the night~ due to my characters constraints - there was a great welcoming committee and a a great spirit and aesthetic and the cirlce time was key - all those bright faces.. the theme was followed thru wholeheartedly and everyone i witnessed was happy and yummy.." ~ Sheherazade
"An incredibly sexy vibe. The costumes were amazing, the people sexy and charming, the space was fabulous and the food totally yummy. Captain Erotica and Fuzzy Phillipe know how to throw the very best parties." ~ M
"WOW! The most amazing party I've ever been to! I've never seen anything like it! The house! The music! The people! All beautiful! I can't wait until the next party!" ~ H
"This was the best party ever! I learned so much about myself that night, and I'm definitely still feeling its affects in every area of my life. This was an amazingly grounding experience, and the space was thoroughly inspiring. I can't wait for the next one!" ~ L
"Wonderful seductive sultry party! This was the first of these parties for my girlfriend and me, and we loved it... a welcoming home, dancing galore, diaphanous dresses, so many areas to explore, and a big roaring fire for late night. Thanks to you djinni who created this fantasy night for us all!" ~ J
"I thought it was a totally wonderful night. Great people, fantastic venue, well organized and a great time!" ~ S