RSVP to join us for the event!

Only a select number of amazing sexy guests will be allowed to join this amazing night of wild romping . We are especially interested in wonderful beasts, magical creatures, and playful beings! If you have never been to such a party, feel free to contact us!

WHO: This event will bring people from the conscious play party/temple communities of the Bay Area, including Club Exotica, Love Underground, Erotic Playground, Friends & Lovers, ISTA, Pleasure & Carsten’s Temples, Shanti’s Temples, Sham’s Temples, Starry’s Temples, Enki’s Temples, The Love Party, Burning Man, Elina’s Co-loving Blue Lotus events, and many more!

RSVP: First, RSVP here . Once you have RSVP'ed below AND sent your $$ contribution (IMPORTANT: we need both before approving you unless you are a guest/performer/etc) we will inform you as the selection unfolds. We do our best to keep things balanced around age, gender and interest! Know that the more you tell us about yourself when you RSVP, the easier it will be for us to invite you!

APPROVAL: When we approve you (meaning you have RSVP'ed and sent your $$ contribution), you will receive an email about it with important information. THIS IS THE EQUIVALENT OF YOUR TICKET. Please keep this email as the links it contains will support you in getting ready for the event.

SOLO MEN: If you are a solo man, depending on current RSVP's you may have to wait for a time to receive a response or you may be put on the waiting list sooner if we have an abundance of solo men already. If you have a current or past lover who can vouch for you, have them email us at clubexotica+soloman@gmail.com which will add priority to your RSVP.

COST: Tickets are $170 each 18+ hours of DJ's, performances, late night dinner, late morning brunch, drinks, snacks, various activities and of course, a hot crowd filled with surprises. (Cost too high? Consider that a 90 minute massage often costs about the same price. Also you can apply to volunteer, see below). (Note: If it turns out that we can't have you for the event, you will be fully reimbursed) 

VOLUNTEER: For those of you who feel the call of service (or an empty wallet) and to be part of something greater in exchange for a discount on your ticket, we have a many opportunity for you to help. Please indicate you would like to volunteer when you RSVP or join the Volunteer WhatsApp group where volunteer options will be posted as they become available. Also consider bringing a special contribution (see next below) as a way to get a discounted or free ticket.

SPECIAL CONTRIBUTIONS: Is there something you would like to contribute that feels perfect for this event? Live music, performance, healing work, a sexy class, or becoming a special feline character? Please RSVP at the address below then email us at clubexotica@gmail.com!

FOOD & REST: Later night dinner, snacks, and brunch will be served.

Please send any questions to clubexotica@gmail.com 

See how people LOVED our previous events...

"Wow you guys what an epic evening, I missed those parties and I’m so grateful for you Philippe & Jocelyn that you guys are bringing those back!"

"Such a trip to think those were going strong 10-15 years ago, it is time leave the new dream and thanks for dreaming us all into it"

"What a wonderful event, so many sweet connections and new friends! A HUGE THANK YOU to all of you who made this event so memorable 💕"

"Super great vibe we had, miss you all already!"

"Thank you all for the great party! Really grateful for all the good conversations and positive energy."

"Absolutely epic! 💥 Was great to see everyone new and old friends 😍"

"Thank you Philippe, Jocelyn, Alex and all the volunteers for an incredible evening and all the beautiful connections. Had an amazing time. ♥️"

"Thank you to everyone for such a life changing evening! To all the hosts, organizers, space holders, volunteers, shuttle drivers, performers, workshop hosts, guests, and the amazing community that I got to meet last night, that was my first play party (like that!!!) and I learned so much!"

"I had an INCREDIBLE time. One of the sweetest days of my recent history. I loved being a fairy & being with you sweet soft giving beings."

"Thank you Philippe and Jocelyn! For all the hard work and dedication to create such a beautiful community and an unbelievable reality!!! You guys are amazing and I’m honoured to be a part of this amazing community 🙏❤️"

"Thanks to each and every single person who joined this adventure and helped to make this night unforgettable 🙏❤️🙏❤️"

"Please don’t wake me up! I’m still dreaming 🥰"

"What a phenomenal gathering! So amazing to meet such delightful souls. Literally one of the best events ever and thanks to anyone who made it to my sensual massage class. "

"Oh my goodness; what a wonderful 24 hours💕Thank you, all of you."

"My first play party was Midsummer’s Night Wet Dream in 2010. Nothing has compared until now. Philippe & Jocelyn, you have once again created magic that is so very appreciated."

"What an epic event, all around! Juicy blessings to everyone making it happen and everyone riding the wave ❤️"

"What a sexy magical night 💕"

"Thanks soul much everyone! What a beautiful event! 🤩"

"I had Such an amazing time DJing for y'all at the pool! Those of you that made it down to dance, swim and wiggle, thank you for being there! It was such a treat to play with and for you all! 🤩 🔥 🎶 💦"

"I think I'm still in the DREAM!"

"Major Love to all Philippe, Jocelyn, the staff... and all of you that I interacted with..Everyone was so amazingly SWEET! ❤️‍🔥"

"Wow! What a lovely group of beautiful and welcoming humans. Thank you so much for embracing my Sunday morning set and going on a listening journey with me. "

"What a magical evening of connection, music, dance, juiciness, whip & buff goodness, dragon magic and more! Thank you all for bringing such joyful eros to life! Gratitude to @Jocelyn and lover @Fuzzy for orchestrating the bliss realms on all levels. Stay in touch 🐲🪷🐦‍🔥🦄🐉🧚🏻‍♀️❤️‍🔥"

"Sooo good. What a day full of special moments and great memories. Thank you Jocelyn, Philippe, and the team!"

"Sending lots of blessings to everyone and hope to see you all again soon! ♥️ "

"So, we don't exactly do a whole lotta play parties. Very picky and finicky on such things. AND we've been to a number of good ones over the past few years. However, [my beloved] and I both say HANDS DOWN(!) that Arabian Nights was the all around best play party either of us have ever been to. The space was incredible. The caliber of people there was so friggin' high. AND I must say, I've never been to a play party that had SO MANY goddamn HOT people there. HOT people with great energy. [my beloved] and I both had a great time playing sensual djinn. The many interactions that I had in that role were really positive. And post-djinn role (well post-scheduled djinn role) personal play time was yum Yum YUM, as well. [my beloved] and i had some pretty big breakthroughs with the event, too. I could go on and on. Just so impressed. I do hope that Club Exotica will be planning something again, soon." ~ Destin Gerek, the Erotic Rockstar (www.EroticRockstar.com)

"Thanks for what truly was an AMAZING party. Hot and sexy for all... Thanks for the rippen party..." ~ S"Thanks for everything I had an amazing time. It truly opened me up and I didn't engage with anyone. Just having an open forum like that for people puts things in a different perspective and allows for other things to happen... I am very grateful for the event..so grateful." ~ M

"In Club Exotica, you are transported into such a luxurious and decadent scene you may almost feel you don't deserve it. So remind yourself that of course you deserve it, because you are fun, sexy, and beautiful!" ~ Raerae

"The venue was beautiful, the food divine, and your ceremonial benediction about Sheherazade was one of the finest introductions I have heard in quite some time." ~ E"Thank you so much for co-creating such a lovely event! I had a fantastic time and look forward to participating in future Club Exotica events! Hugs and gratitude!" ~ C"Hello Exotic ones... Acknowledgment and gratitude to you all for the massive efforts and gorgeous container you provided for a remarkable occasion. I greatly enjoyed being the Hot Tub Djinni rain storm and all, my litter of tub-tins and I were quite happy throughout. Loved the heated hooka chill space!" ~ R

"We had so much fun! The people were so nice and respectful, we can't stop talking and remembering it. We're so grateful to be able to feel free somewhere!" ~ C

"I wanted to thank you one more time for putting together such a beautiful party. I felt so comfortable around everyone and met so many wonderful people... Everything from dancing, to playing, to even cleaning was great." ~ G

"Never seen anything like it! Awesome!!" -- H

"I just wanted to thank you for a really lovely experience on Saturday night. It was a grand feast on many levels and I can only hope you will have more of these celebrations. I wanted to share one of my favorite moments which I hope will always stay etched in my mind. It was the end of the evening and there were some of us relaxing in the living room. I wanted some fresh air so I stood outside and leaned against the sliding glass door and watched the gusts of wind blow the billowing curtains as they framed the palm tree which was illuminated by the soft moonlight. As I listened to the sound of the rain pouring down and the sweet, haunting piano music I felt such gratitude for being a participant in this truly wonderful experience of love. Thank you so much for all of your efforts. I so look forward to the next gathering!" ~ A

"We just wanted to take a moment and tell you "Thank You!" for all of your hard work putting this event together. You did a spectacular job and we had a lovely time!" ~ G & R

"Wonderful, fun, amazing party! Thank you!" ~ S

"You guys just freakin rock! I am so happy to have been a part, in my own small way, of supporting the creation of this magnificent event." ~ P"I had a blast -- you pulled out all the stops." ~ B"Wow. Just wow. Thankyou!" ~ A

"The Arabian Nights party was fabulous. It certainly lived up to its name in every way. [my beloved] & I had a wonderful time. Thank you, thank you, thank you!" ~ S

"Thanks a ton! That was a great event, and I think you made [my beloved's] month. She was so happy she said it felt like she was on another planet!! I was really happy to be there too. Nowhere else I would have rather speant my rainy Saturday night. Much appreciation!" ~ D

"Didn't think I'd stay till the end, but you saw me—giddy and drunk from all the wishes received and granted. when's the next one?" ~ S"That was the most incredible beautiful magical valentine's i've had in my life. Thank you for making everyone's deepest wishes take form and come to sparkling life. You made magic that night!" ~ N

"Wow...just wow! Words cannot adequately describe what awesome fun was had at Arabian Nights. Thank you so much for holding and manifesting such a powerful vision! Everything I love about our underground community with the added sex.ual dimension that I hasd not before experienced. I amazed myself at how comfortable and at home I felt and while I did not myself engage in any carnal pleasures, I was okay with just being present and in so doing made some amourous connections that may very well blossom. A huge thank you to Philippe and his fellow producers." ~ S

"I just wanted to say that I THOROUGHLY enjoyed having the opportunity to work as a greeter, party, and play with you and your charming collection of friends during the Arabian Knights affair. Phenomenal venue, outstanding level of organization and care, inspirational music, quality people, quality ingredients, it was all just top-notch." ~ D

"In a world where people feel like a MySpace friend is a connection, it is wonderful to meet and touch and dance and interact with REAL people. Everyone promises a memorable experience in their party invitation, but this party leaves you feeling different for days afterwards." ~ R

"Arabian Nights was not only a delicious party with hot people, a sexy vibe, and a warm atmosphere, but it was an opportunity for me to stretch my own personal boundaries and grow as a powerful woman in relationship and as an individual. It laid a foundation for clear communication with my (new) partner so that I could take ahold of my experience and make it work as well as it possible could for me. I loved seeing people walk through the door that I knew from other lifetimes, that somehow, we had met in the past under different contexts, only to find our way here at Arabian Nights to really grow more intimate from a fleeting meeting years before...what an unexpected treat that, in hindsight, doesn't surprise me at all." ~ A

"It was incredible, beautiful, inspiring! We had a great time seeing, interacting with/among so many lovely, sexy people. Being in rooms filled with such eroticism, good humor, personality, atmosphere and inhibition was nothing short of a veritable dream come true. We wish that life were like this, and that we could do this more often..." ~ A & S

"Really appreciated all the work that went into making an amazing experience. This was my first play party, and while I was a little nervous, I felt really safe and good in the space you created. Thank you!" ~ T

"I had no idea what to expect (first time) but I enjoyed myself - I felt the crowd was very welcoming and the vibe was very friendly/loving.

Aris Loved the ability to create my own story within the environment of everyone's participation." ~ J

"I've always dreamed of attending a party like Arabian Nights but was beginning to think it was a pie-in-the-sky idea that just wasn't possible. Thank you for renewing my hope in the possibility of a truly exotic, emotionally warm, romantic, juicy, fully-expressed, s.x positive gathering. The mark of truly great event is whether it inspires a desire to give back more next time. As a newbie, I felt overwhelmed with gratitude for the thought and hard work that went into creating this fantasy world. I hope to offer more tangible help in creating the next event." ~ T

"That party was so much fun! All night dancing, gorgeous space, great musicians, fabulous costumes, I loved it!" ~ M

"I think that what you set out to do, you achieved! I had the most amazing, fun, pleasurable time!" ~ S

"This was an epic production on a very wet day! It was an unusual way to spend a valentines day. It was full of beauty and wonder and great food and drink in a fantastic setting. Its too bad the outside could not have been better explored due the the weather. the team that created definately seemed very intent on creating the most lush experience for all the guests to feel mesmerized by" ~ J

"I had an amazing time. Everyone very much stepped up to play big, with in their costumes, their attitude, and loving and respectful actions. And I have no doubt that this is due to the momentum and context you provided for the event. The house is spectacular, warm, a little quirky, and full of little nooks to get dirty in. And I really appreciated the ceremonial ritual, which really helps frame the event. And the musical talent was top notch." ~ M

"It was a magical night. I loved the people, the music, the costumes, the DJ's and of course the magical venue really made it. Your attention to details was superb as host, hostess and crew didn't go unnoticed. I want to be there again and again." ~ L

"I had a wonderful evening and that was one of the best Play Party Experiences I've ever had. i could tell you guys put ALOT of energy into making it the fabulous and safe space that it was. The folks there was amazing, so was the ambience, the music, the ceremony, the energy was so HIGH. You guys rock and I sooooo appreciation that you put so much into making this event a total success. Thank you!! Mad Props!" ~ Tallulah

"This was my first 'play' party and it was a fantastic experience. The environment was really magical. All the love that went into the event was evident everywhere: the decorations, the food (incredible), the music, and the music. Everyone was very friendly, open, and respectful. I felt very comfortable. Thank you to the host and organizers!" ~ M

"Now, my whole life is a little sexier! My relationship to my sex.uality as well as my partners is blossoming and my orgasms are deepening. Love it!" ~ D

"Great intentions, costumes, work efforts, decor, people. I felt comfortable & found most folks very open with a high level of awareness and consciousness. I like that kind of community. Words do little justice to the house as a venue for this party." ~ P"

Arabian Nights was the most authentic themed event I have ever attended. It was very refreshing to see an event managed so well. I was especially pleased that everyone adhered to rules regarding costumes and behavior." ~ J

"top flight in every way! lovely setting, lovely people, great beats, great food and drinks...intimate areas and spaces that made the evening feel intimate and private." ~ S

"It was everything I hoped for, and more. I didn't expect so many distinct spaces. The Djinnis and guests were awesome. Within minutes of entering, I was eating super-rich chocolate off of my date's nipple."

"I was very happy about the costume requirement, and the clear agreements. Knowing that everyone signed those had me feel much better about letting loose. I only saw one couple there that didn't seem to "belong"

and they were tolerably naive." ~ X

"I don't know what it took to organize this, but THANK YOU. It was the best Valentine's Day I can remember." ~ X

"fantastic job! - altho i was locked into one small space for most of the night~ due to my characters constraints - there was a great welcoming committee and a a great spirit and aesthetic and the cirlce time was key - all those bright faces.. the theme was followed thru wholeheartedly and everyone i witnessed was happy and yummy.." ~ Sheherazade

"An incredibly sexy vibe. The costumes were amazing, the people sexy and charming, the space was fabulous and the food totally yummy. Captain Erotica and Fuzzy Phillipe know how to throw the very best parties." ~ M

"WOW! The most amazing party I've ever been to! I've never seen anything like it! The house! The music! The people! All beautiful! I can't wait until the next party!" ~ H

"This was the best party ever! I learned so much about myself that night, and I'm definitely still feeling its affects in every area of my life. This was an amazingly grounding experience, and the space was thoroughly inspiring. I can't wait for the next one!" ~ L

"Wonderful seductive sultry party! This was the first of these parties for my girlfriend and me, and we loved it... a welcoming home, dancing galore, diaphanous dresses, so many areas to explore, and a big roaring fire for late night. Thanks to you djinni who created this fantasy night for us all!" ~ J

"I thought it was a totally wonderful night. Great people, fantastic venue, well organized and a great time!" ~ S